Reflections Seeded from the I Ching
Fit not Force

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Fit not Force

If we are probing to understand a situation or a person and not getting the feedback we expect, it’s good to stop.

To adjust, adapt, see how we can fit with what is there rather than what we want to be there.

Flexible feeling and sensing reveal subtleties and intricacies.

Trying to force someone or some situation to be what we want or expect leads to frustration and possibly damage.